We always look forward to our annual yurt trips, generally
taking place in February or March to capitalize on the winter weather. This
time around was no exception as we were heading into a new yurt that none of
our adventure learning staff had been to before.
Wednesday, February 25, 2015
Wednesday, February 18, 2015
The Hero
Logan River Academy offers the opportunity to both
students and their families to begin the hero’s journey. This
journey will be challenging, sometimes overwhelming, rewarding, as well as
worth it if it is able to be completed. Many young people begin or start a
variety of activities, clubs, and programs, but very few have acquired the skill
set, fortitude, and motivation to finish what they started. In order to better
prepare for a stronger commitment to finishing what has been started within Logan River Academy, let’s review the phases of the
hero’s journey.
The initial steps are listed below.
Separation:
The Call to Adventure
The hero begins in a mundane situation
of normality from which some information is received that acts as a call to
head off into the unknown. This is any example of when behaviors escalate to
the point where the seeking out of a higher level of care is presented.
Refusal of the Call
Often when the call is given, the
future hero first refuses to heed it. This may be from a sense of duty or
obligation, fear, insecurity, a sense of inadequacy, or any of a range of
reasons that work to hold the person in his or her current circumstances. This
includes many empty promises and commitments that this time things were really
change, however this has been found to be very unaffected as this would
discontinue a continuation of the same actions, attitudes, and beliefs.
Supernatural Aid
Once the hero has committed to the
quest, consciously or unconsciously, his guide and magical helper appear or
become known. More often than not, this supernatural mentor will present the
hero with one or more talismans or artifacts that will aid him later in his
quest. This is the initial stages of the therapeutic relationship
established during weekly individual, family, and group therapeutic sessions.
Crossing the Threshold
This is the point where the person
actually crosses into the field of adventure, leaving the known limits of his
or her world and venturing into an unknown and dangerous realm where the rules
and limits are not known. This phase is very critical and the need for clear
cut rules, limits and boundaries within the family dynamic, as well as within Logan River Academy are essential as
consistency now becomes the norm.
Wednesday, February 11, 2015
When Life Gives You Lemons, You Still Go Skiing
January is one of my least favorite months; the ski season
is well under way, but for our portion of the world, the real winter weather
hasn’t shown up. Sure we’ve got snow from a few generous November and December
storm cycles, but generally January is hesitant to add to the snow pack. This
creates alarm amongst winter-loving folks; I have a hard time not falling into
the same trap. However, there is that short month everyone dismisses, February.
That is the month storms around our area come alive, when staying in a yurt for
three days gives you a true sense of what 36” over a 48-hour time period really
feels like. I love February.
Wednesday, January 28, 2015
To Worry or Not to Worry . . . That Is the Question
Many of us worry. Worrying is a common trait that many have.
We worry about our kids, our responsibilities, our bodies, our relationships,
our to-do list, our house, our finances, and the list could go on and on.
Is worrying productive and/or helpful or is it the sign of a
major problem? We will explore that question in this blog post!
I grew up with four older brothers and one younger sister. A
couple of my older brothers enjoyed teasing me and pushing my buttons. They did
things such as call me names that rhymed with “Matt” or put me in a sleeping
bag and not let me out. I was not one to just suffer in silence. Therefore, my
mother had to be involved often during those years to make sure I wasn’t tied up
or hanging from the garage rafters. My mother was and is a worrier. She is a
wonderful mother and I love her very much. However, she has spent a lot of
energy worrying over the years.
This blog post is a chance for me to share my personal
thoughts on worrying. This is not a scientific point of view, rather my point of view.
Wednesday, January 21, 2015
Our Area
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Patience
With the New Year upon us, it is a time when many of us do a
better job of looking within ourselves (something we clinicians refer to as
“introspection”) and evaluating how we are doing in our lives. For many this is a challenging and painful
endeavor, however, from my perspective it is one of the most potentially joyous
and growth evoking experiences we can have.
As one wise individual once put it:
“Many things we have
to learn by that which we suffer, and knowledge secured in that way, though the
process may be painful, will be of great value to us”
As I have tried to look within myself and determine the
changes that will be of benefit to me in the long run, one adjustment continues
to rear its ugly head; my need for increased patience in my life. I far too often find in my life that when
bitter circumstances arise, I simply become bitter. When I look to determine the benefit of this
bitterness, I find little to no value.
So my goal has become to find a way to endure bitterness patiently
without becoming bitter.
Wednesday, January 7, 2015
America's Affluent Teen Crisis
Emotional
health is one of the most precious and challenging aspects of the developmental
process. Logan River Academy has placed
a high level of focus on helping the students currently enrolled to more fully
understand the core values of honesty, respect, personal accountability,
fairness and caring. The following
article demonstrates how with increased awareness and acceptance in our
families the process of change is truly possible.
America’s Affluent Teen Crisis:
How
much would you pay for your teen to be able to thrive emotionally? Ten thousand
dollars? Your entire IRA? Turns out all the money in the world may not be
enough to protect your most prized possession from anxiety, depression and
substance use. According to research, the more money in your
bank account may mean the less adept he is at weathering the pressure to
succeed at school, in sports, and at home.
This research has its roots in a 1999 study involving
two samples of 10th graders - those from low-income, urban families and
high-income, suburban families. Findings showed that on several fronts the
wealthy children fared more poorly than did their low-income
counterparts. Specifically, they reported much higher levels of
cigarette, alcohol, and marijuana use as well as significantly greater anxiety;
in addition, suburban girls reported startlingly high levels of depression
(Luthar & D'Avanzo, 1999). Since then, these findings have been replicated
over and over again.
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