Often times, many of the students we work with at Logan River
Academy come to us with
lofty goals and ideals which they want to aim to accomplish. Even we, as
adults, continue to set our sights on things we want to obtain in life whether
it’s accomplishments (getting a job promotion, graduating college, losing
weight) or more physically tangible objects (buying that new boat or car you’ve
had your eye on for a while). It’s a natural tendency to set goals for
ourselves. Some people will even go so far as to make a “goal board” where they
post pictures or sayings that pertain to the goal or item they want to achieve
or obtain. The underlying problem is that often these goals end up falling by
the wayside and not becoming the reality that we so eagerly strive for.
With our students at Logan River
Academy , we as therapists
challenge each of them to set behavioral goals that they can work towards and
achieve so that they can return home and be met with success in all aspects of
life. But as with so many goals, these can easily become yesterday’s fleeing
thoughts as we either become caught up in other activities or feel overwhelmed
by the stress of the actual work involved in achieving these goals.
We encourage each of our students to set S.M.A.R.T. Goals
whether here at Logan
River Academy
or in other areas of life in order to help them be met with success. Each
letter of the acronym S.M.A.R.T. acts as a guide to use in making any goal more
practical and achievable. And, yes, even as adults, we can continue to use each
of these skills as outlined below in order to outline a more plausible plan for
ourselves to follow.
Specific – What exactly will
I do? It’s important to almost adapt the attitude of an investigative reporter
and answer these questions about your goal: Who is involved with the goal? What
exactly do I want to accomplish? Where will it be done? Which requirements do I
have that will help me achieve this? The more specific you can be in outlining
your goal, the more realistic is will appear to be.
Measurable – Measurement is
often used to gauge whether we’ve travelled an appropriate distance or have
more of an item than when we started. Its how we tell if a difference is
apparent and it is the same with regards to goals. Is my goal measurable? How much, how many, or how will I know if my
goal is accomplished? Can it be measured to estimate success? Good!
Achievable – It’s important
to ask if there’s anything that can stop me from accomplishing my goal,
including myself. Is the goal out of your reach or below your standard of
performance? If so, it might be advisable to go back to the beginning and
reevaluate the steps needed to achieve your goal.
Relevant – What about your
goal makes it important to you? Is it a worthwhile goal? Does it meet your
needs? Is it consistent with other goals you have or have had? One question I
always ask my clients that most literature ignores but I feel is paramount is
“Is it consistent with who you are as a person?” If I’m a person of pretty high
caliber and moral fiber then it’s probably not consistent with who I am if I
set a goal to start embezzling money.
Timely – It’s extremely
important to set a time limit for ourselves and our goals. When do you want to
complete your goal? It does little good to set a goal of losing 30 lbs without
a completion date to shoot for, right? “Oh… it’ll come off whenever I get to
it”. Establishing a time limit establishes a sense of urgency and prompts
better time management.
If you can ask your self if your goal meets these
requirements and answer “Yes”, you’re well on your way to success. We encourage
parents of our students to help engage them in continuing to set SMART goals
once they return home and move to the next phase of their lives.
Brandon Bailey, ACMHC
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